It is a warm, windy Sunday morning today. I have nothing urgent to attend so I reckon it is the best opportunity to share some thoughts. Today some shades of grey in my writing for a change.
The changing facets of relationships with time surprise me. How I wish to hold on to a relationship when it is blissful, wonderful, charming, adorable and when it is everything that my world comprises of........why can we not keep a relation same and constant forever? I hate to think or dream that two people so close like chalk and cheese, hand in glove can just walk past in front of each other acting as strangers....things happen but then I wish we all can work out a solution before it is too late......a bed of roses always have thorns - isn’t it? There shall be ups and downs, consents and arguments, pleasure and pain, hurt and happiness- just like different seasons in a year but then we see all together and hopefully withstand them evolving as stronger and better individuals.
When relations break, they hurt a lot. There is no sound to the world, as if they care but inside one is left shattered, lonely and weak. How much we hope that the person calls or sends some message and we can quickly make up- maybe that is the same thinking on other side and eventually both keep waiting for things to happen.
Hopefully, the ego’s can rest aside. A new beginning, a fresh start, a renewed confidence is all that takes to know nothing is lost....so to all those people including myself who think Oh, I wish we could have spoken more and maybe held on to our partner, our lover, our friend, our relative– just stop thinking and connect.....after all – it takes a second to be back in happiness but it takes ages to heal a wound.
Life is about building relationships.
Much love
AJ
